"I'm depressed to go to work because of an unpleasant colleague. I consulted with my boss, but he didn't respond ... What should I do?" (Male, 40s, Shizuoka Prefecture)

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This issue was posted by Mr. F (male, office worker in his 40s) who lives in Shizuoka prefecture.

He says he's depressed to go to work because of his disliked colleague.

He doesn't reply to people he doesn't like, or slanders behind the scenes ...

He wants to change the status quo, but he talks to his boss, but he doesn't respond at all.

He likes work but doesn't want to be with his colleague. What kind of advice will the uncle self-defense give to Mr. F, who is also considering retirement?

Readers' worries

Going to work is depressing. I have a colleague who dislikes it, and I speak calmly about people's secrets, and when I dislike it, I openly express my replies and appeal to them that I dislike it.

There are even some staff members who disliked the colleague and quit.

Even if I consult with my boss, I'm not bullying or harassing him, so I'm told that I can't be careful, and he doesn't deal with it. What should I do?

I like work, but should I think about retirement?

"Your words and actions are jarring and unpleasant, so why don't you stop?"

Uncle Self-Defense Answer

I would tell him directly.

After all, it's unpleasant just because there are people who continue to emit evil in the same space of the workplace where they spend most of the day.

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