I'm dissatisfied with my father who can't even use chopsticks if he doesn't like the food ... My mother who kept hitting me "Relationship with my father" (modern business) --Yahoo! News

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Being beaten, yelled, ignored, discriminated against by parents ... How deeply does such treatment leave a scar on the child's heart? [Illustration] Only myself is oppressed ... A woman suffering from physiological poverty talks about a feud with a fierce real mother Even in the current situation of child abuse announced by the Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare, 220 child consultation documents nationwide during the second year of Reiwa The number of consultations received at was 205,044, the highest ever. It is said that the number has increased by more than 10,000 from the previous year. What should I do? Is it possible to protect the abused child and take care of the abusive parent? Nao Wakabayashi (pseudonym) in her 40s has been violent by her mother since her childhood. She is a slender and gentle Nao-san, but if you look closely, she has a painful keloid mark on her hand. Naone is in the middle of three siblings, and between her brother and her sickly sister, she says she was the only target for her mother. And Nao-san tells her that her mother herself lost her parents early and was forced to take the place of her brothers and sisters' mothers, and even after her daughter-in-law, she was treated coldly by her father's mother. I knew. And she also felt that her mother's upbringing led to her violence against herself. She was released from her mother's curse, and she thought, "She can be alive," because she was in her thirties and married someone who would recognize her as she was. After that. That's why she now decides to convey her experience, "She doesn't want to increase the number of people who suffer like her." The fourth installment of her series, "Mother's Curse," tells us when her mother suddenly changed due to a change in her relationship with her father.

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When I was little, my mother was nervous about her housework and parenting. She loved patchwork, joining hundreds of pieces together, and she handcrafted sofas and kotatsu covers. She bought her house, which her mother liked at a young age, on a loan from her father, and even remodeled it more than three times at her mother's request before she paid off. Among them, the kitchen was her mother's castle. The tableware, glasses, and picture plates she received were displayed in a large cupboard. At the time, her mother was part-time, and she cooked well-crafted dishes. She cooked azuki beans and made glutinous rice with handmade rice cakes. She also baked homemade pizzas, breads and cakes in the oven. She made one curry for her father, one for spicy food and one for children. She carefully takes the soup stock with dried sardines to make miso soup and soup. She handmade the dumpling seeds and the ingredients in Ehomaki. She packed lunch boxes from kindergarten to elementary school athletic meet and New Year's New Year's osechi, which was gorgeous. Her father is a sloppy type. To support her family, she chose to work as a well-earned long-distance truck driver. He worked from early morning to late night and sometimes didn't come back for about two days. At the end of the night shift and on Sundays at home, I was often exhausted and asleep. I went to work early in the morning when we were sleeping and came back in the middle of the night when we slept, so I felt like an uncle who didn't know until kindergarten.

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